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Mistakes That May Harm Your Chances of Winning a Child Custody Case
A divorce or separation can debilitate you emotionally and physically. Things get worse when you add a child custody case into the equation. You want the best for your children, and the case's outcome could determine your kids' future.
You need to be at the top of your game to win a child custody case. Remember that everything you do from when you or your partner files for child custody will build or harm your case. To increase your chances of winning the case, check these mistakes to avoid.
Failure to Cooperate With Your Partner
Child custody battles are contentious. In the heat of the moment, you may want to take every opportunity to put your partner down or make them look bad to your kids. Unfortunately, this behavior will likely backfire on you, and the court may view you as an unfit parent for child custody.
The secret to winning a child custody case is to put your anger aside and do what's best for your children. Create room for your partner even if things between you are messy.
Both parents should communicate effectively and work together for the sake of their child. If you are the current custodial parent, don't deny the other parent access to visitations or calls.
Moreover, no matter how angry you are with your child's other parent, you should never speak negatively about them in front of your child. Doing so will only damage your child's relationship with that parent and may make the court question your ability to co-parent effectively.
If you want to vent about your child's other parent, do so in private or with a trusted friend or relative who can offer support.
Failure to Maintain a Healthy Relationship With Your Child
Your relationship with your child is among the critical things that help the court decide if you are a suitable custodial parent. The court will want to know if you can nurture and care for your child emotionally and physically.
You should take every chance to spend time with your kids to prove that you care and have a healthy relationship with them. If you are not the current custodial parent, create as much time as possible to visit your children, and don't forget to contact them when you are not around. Attend the kids' school functions, play games together, and keep communication lines open at all times.
Failure to Hire an Attorney
Some individuals assume that they can represent themselves in a child custody case to save some money. Child custody cases are complex, and the stakes are high. If you are not knowledgeable about divorce and child custody law, you should hire an experienced family law attorney who can help you navigate the legal process and save you from mistakes that could harm your case.
The right lawyer has experience in similar cases, so you can trust the professional to increase your winning possibilities. The lawyer will also help you gather substantial evidence and present the documents in court on your behalf. With this, you can spend more time with your children rather than spending too much time on legal cases.
Child custody cases are complex and sensitive. And the mistakes above will only make the case harder. Work with an experienced family law attorney to give you the best chance of success.
We are your go-to family and divorce law experts, and you can trust us to help you navigate your child custody case. We have extensive experience in this field and won't rest until you are satisfied. So, contact us at Evergreen Family Law Group PLLC, and let's discuss how we can help you.
